"If you know someone who has lost a child, and you're afraid to mention them because you think you might make them sad by reminding them that they died--you're not reminding them. They didn't forget they died. What you're reminding them of is that you remembered that they lived, and that is a great gift."
--Elizabeth Edwards, 1949-2010
This is important, boys, and I think the sentiment applies to the loss of any loved one. People often wonder what words, if any, to say to a grieving friend. I can tell you that anything involving God and his reasons will almost universally elicit an internal eye roll from the recipient. I prefer a simple and honest "I'm sorry," "I love you," and "I will remember." Then open your heart and listen.
That's all for today.
xoxo
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